“Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.”
Wayne W. Dyer
This is not always so easy, but still if we think about it, it is so true, if you don’t want to change, you should not have to, but if you want to change that’s good.
I have been stuck in rules and that all things should be, made by my rules. But when I moved from Iceland to Norway I decided to change. I decided to wear skirt with rose pattern every day and that is not just a skirt but rather a state of mind and it helped me to step out of the box and start to do things more spontaneous and now I do things without thinking to much but sometimes I have to remind myself of putting on that skirt with rose pattern and then I feel better and more relaxed.